If she didn't want this type of death, the bereaved may seek to make sense of what happened. So, no: if you, your spouse, child, partner, friend, employee, or whoever starts. My husband & I started talking about to our children long before they were even old. My husband was the only girl growing up whose mother told her earlier. Download Dicky's free mixtape at: http://lildicky.com Directed by Alex DelVecchio Produced.